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		<title>By: Holly</title>
		<link>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5218</link>
		<author>Holly</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 15:08:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5218</guid>
		<description>That was supposed to be-- "It Came From the Slushpile" panel--.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That was supposed to be&#8211; &#8220;It Came From the Slushpile&#8221; panel&#8211;.</p>
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		<title>By: Holly</title>
		<link>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5217</link>
		<author>Holly</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 15:06:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5217</guid>
		<description>Sometimes the way things have changed makes me so sad.  And I know people are watching, and a lot of them are looking for trouble to cause and things to hate.

But who benefits if we keep silent?  If we don't discuss rejections?  If we don't admit from time to time that the industry isn't perfect, that at times it sucks, that at times it's unnecessarily and even intentionally cruel.  

For example, I don't name names regarding the editor who, talking with another editor on her way out of an "It Came From the Slush Pile," laughed while saying, "I have to go tell some of my authors they're dead," about writers she was dumping.  I know she's out there, she knows she's out there, but if you're a new writer and you think all editors are your friends, I think you need to know that some of the folks buying your books are pondscum.

So I still tell.  I take a lot of crap, especially from the Anonymous sector--that group of bloggers too lame to put their names on their opinions. It's still worth it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes the way things have changed makes me so sad.  And I know people are watching, and a lot of them are looking for trouble to cause and things to hate.</p>
<p>But who benefits if we keep silent?  If we don&#8217;t discuss rejections?  If we don&#8217;t admit from time to time that the industry isn&#8217;t perfect, that at times it sucks, that at times it&#8217;s unnecessarily and even intentionally cruel.  </p>
<p>For example, I don&#8217;t name names regarding the editor who, talking with another editor on her way out of an &#8220;It Came From the Slush Pile,&#8221; laughed while saying, &#8220;I have to go tell some of my authors they&#8217;re dead,&#8221; about writers she was dumping.  I know she&#8217;s out there, she knows she&#8217;s out there, but if you&#8217;re a new writer and you think all editors are your friends, I think you need to know that some of the folks buying your books are pondscum.</p>
<p>So I still tell.  I take a lot of crap, especially from the Anonymous sector&#8211;that group of bloggers too lame to put their names on their opinions. It&#8217;s still worth it.</p>
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		<title>By: Louisa</title>
		<link>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5214</link>
		<author>Louisa</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Mar 2008 02:25:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5214</guid>
		<description>Came over to thank you for sponsoring the 70 Day Challenge.  Stuck around to envy the community you all have built.  I say, go you all!  Made my words today, but not really happy with the direction the scene took.  Will learn later if today was a waste, or a message from my subconscious.
Anyway, thanks for sponsoring.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Came over to thank you for sponsoring the 70 Day Challenge.  Stuck around to envy the community you all have built.  I say, go you all!  Made my words today, but not really happy with the direction the scene took.  Will learn later if today was a waste, or a message from my subconscious.<br />
Anyway, thanks for sponsoring.</p>
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		<title>By: Janette Kenny</title>
		<link>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5213</link>
		<author>Janette Kenny</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 16:27:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5213</guid>
		<description>Wow, so much has happened since those early blogging days, when I dreamed of being published.  Yes, friends make a huge difference and widen our worlds.  I've met great friends through friends.  Just remember me when you're rich and famous.  :thumbsup:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, so much has happened since those early blogging days, when I dreamed of being published.  Yes, friends make a huge difference and widen our worlds.  I&#8217;ve met great friends through friends.  Just remember me when you&#8217;re rich and famous.  <img src='http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_up.gif' alt=':thumbsup:' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Amie Stuart</title>
		<link>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5212</link>
		<author>Amie Stuart</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 01:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5212</guid>
		<description>Linda! I forgot all about that!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Linda! I forgot all about that!!</p>
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		<title>By: Tori Lennox</title>
		<link>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5211</link>
		<author>Tori Lennox</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 22:51:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5211</guid>
		<description>And if not for you, I might never have discovered the joys of Navy SEALs. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And if not for you, I might never have discovered the joys of Navy SEALs. ;)</p>
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		<title>By: Tori Lennox</title>
		<link>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5210</link>
		<author>Tori Lennox</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 22:51:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5210</guid>
		<description>I'm amazed every day at all the wonderful friends I've made since I started blogging. It's a great community, isn't it? :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m amazed every day at all the wonderful friends I&#8217;ve made since I started blogging. It&#8217;s a great community, isn&#8217;t it? :)</p>
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		<title>By: Steph T.</title>
		<link>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5209</link>
		<author>Steph T.</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 19:29:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5209</guid>
		<description>LOL, Linda!!! We ALL talked about them...and seriously, I think we all stopped after that!

Shannon - yes, that sounds like Jaci :) And OMG, I totally still remember your sold post...around New Years, right?  

Here's to NY for you this year :thumbsup:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL, Linda!!! We ALL talked about them&#8230;and seriously, I think we all stopped after that!</p>
<p>Shannon - yes, that sounds like Jaci :) And OMG, I totally still remember your sold post&#8230;around New Years, right?  </p>
<p>Here&#8217;s to NY for you this year <img src='http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_up.gif' alt=':thumbsup:' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Shannon Stacey</title>
		<link>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5208</link>
		<author>Shannon Stacey</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 18:08:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5208</guid>
		<description>You made me go back to New Year's Eve 2004 and see who my first comment was from: Jaci. &lt;i&gt;Just turn in the book, Shan. Quit wasting time *g*&lt;/i&gt; (I should have named my blog that.)

But, hey? Am I the only one listed who doesn't have a NY contract yet?

 :x 

I'll have to fix that this year.  :wink:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You made me go back to New Year&#8217;s Eve 2004 and see who my first comment was from: Jaci. <i>Just turn in the book, Shan. Quit wasting time *g*</i> (I should have named my blog that.)</p>
<p>But, hey? Am I the only one listed who doesn&#8217;t have a NY contract yet?</p>
<p> <img src='http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_mad.gif' alt=':x' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I&#8217;ll have to fix that this year.  <img src='http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=':wink:' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Linda</title>
		<link>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5207</link>
		<author>Linda</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 17:46:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5207</guid>
		<description>Oh, I remember those days! And I miss them, too.

Gee, wonder who used to talk about rejections in general terms on her blog . . . and keep a scoreboard of them . . .  :wink:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I remember those days! And I miss them, too.</p>
<p>Gee, wonder who used to talk about rejections in general terms on her blog . . . and keep a scoreboard of them . . .  <img src='http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=':wink:' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Steph T.</title>
		<link>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5206</link>
		<author>Steph T.</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 15:50:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5206</guid>
		<description>Cece - we have!!!  It's kind of amazing to look back at the road...

Kacey - it's true, the moral support is incredible.  And what's cool is that I've found that the readers who now read the blog like hearing about the writing aspect of things as well, so I get to still blog on a wide variety of topics :)

Alison, I know where to find you...don't you worry.  You just keep writing. :LOL:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cece - we have!!!  It&#8217;s kind of amazing to look back at the road&#8230;</p>
<p>Kacey - it&#8217;s true, the moral support is incredible.  And what&#8217;s cool is that I&#8217;ve found that the readers who now read the blog like hearing about the writing aspect of things as well, so I get to still blog on a wide variety of topics :)</p>
<p>Alison, I know where to find you&#8230;don&#8217;t you worry.  You just keep writing. <img src='http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_LOL.gif' alt=':LOL:' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Alison</title>
		<link>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5205</link>
		<author>Alison</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 15:39:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/2008/02/29/nostalgia/#comment-5205</guid>
		<description>I have been terrible the last year about visiting and commenting on friends blogs.  I have 20 or so I read in a feed reader daily, but I rarely hop over and say hi.  So, HI! :P  :P  :P  :P  :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been terrible the last year about visiting and commenting on friends blogs.  I have 20 or so I read in a feed reader daily, but I rarely hop over and say hi.  So, HI! :P <img src='http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' />  :P <img src='http://www.stephanietyler.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' />  :P</p>
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