coping
PBW writes:
I recently gave an interview during which I was asked “Has writing changed who you are or how you see the world?”, and I answered Writing has allowed me to cope with who I am and the world around me. That’s still true. No matter how drastically your life and the world changes, the work is always there, waiting. Writing through the worst times can be a release for emotions that have no other appropriate outlet, and that can turn self-destructive if you keep them bottled up.
First of all, it was wonderful to see her posting again. Please continue to keep her in your thoughts.
Writing has allowed me to cope with who I am and the world around me…this particular line strikes home with me because I’m mentally preparing for another of the four year old’s (planned) surgeries today to expand the rods in her back a bit. She gets it done every 5 months or so. Writing is my escape, and the wonderful thing about it is that it allows me to be close with the four year old and still block out the chaos around us.
I always try to use the emotion I’m feeling when I’m sitting in the waiting room and funnel it into my writing. It’s either that or sit and stare into space and think of all the things that could go wrong and wish I didn’t know quite so much. Although, me being the way I am, I couldn’t have it any other way. Reading doesn’t work, because I’m not really paying attention. But if I can lose myself in writing for a bit, I can take the nervous energy and all the other emotions swirling around inside me and get them on paper and end up with something raw and real and usable for whatever character I’m channeling.
So if you’ve got some extra thoughts and prayers, the four year old appreciates them. I’ll check in when I can - probably late Friday/early Saturday.
Steph T.
















































August 18th, 2005 at 8:15 am
Will be thinking extra special thoughts of the 4 year old. Hope everything goes well!
August 18th, 2005 at 8:43 am
More prayers and thoughts going out for your DD!!
And PBW and her family..
August 18th, 2005 at 9:30 am
Hugs! I hope everything goes well.
August 18th, 2005 at 10:12 am
Thoughts and prayers heading your way!
August 18th, 2005 at 10:31 am
Lots of good thoughts headed your way.
August 18th, 2005 at 11:22 am
(((Hugs))) For you and your little one.
August 18th, 2005 at 12:29 pm
Hugs, Steph. I got my dates wrong; thought this was happening the 23rd! Lots of thoughts and prayers.
August 18th, 2005 at 12:42 pm
Sending good thoughts your way, Steph.
August 18th, 2005 at 3:39 pm
Hugs and prayers headed your way, Steph.
August 18th, 2005 at 4:03 pm
Sending all my prayers your way!!
August 18th, 2005 at 5:28 pm
ah hugs. Good thoughts, prayers, and positive energy heading your way.
August 18th, 2005 at 7:45 pm
(((steph and 4 YO))))) take care babes!
August 18th, 2005 at 7:46 pm
You got it, Steph. Best of luck!
August 18th, 2005 at 9:09 pm
Steph–I hope she does okay. Hugs for mom and prayers for baby.
August 18th, 2005 at 9:26 pm
Hugs. Hope all goes well.
August 19th, 2005 at 8:04 am
Prayers and positive thoughts for you both. And I was delighted to see PBW posting again, too.
August 19th, 2005 at 10:31 am
It’s great to see PBW posting again!
And the 4 year old is always in my thoughts and prayers.
August 19th, 2005 at 5:32 pm
Well wishes headed your way, hon.
August 21st, 2005 at 4:03 pm
Thanks SO much for the thoughts and prayers and support, everyone! it really means a lot!
(Bonnie - great to see you again! Hope you’re doing well :)